Our Mother
You are the Mother I received
the day I wed your son.
And I just want to thank you, Mom
for the things that you have done.
You have given me a gracious man
with whom I share my life.
You are his lovely Mother and
I his lucky Wife.
You used to pat his little head,
and now I hold his hand.
You raised in love a little boy
then gave to me a man.
When Mom was in the hospital towards the end of her life, there were 2 days that she was very lucid and was able to chat with each of us. It was during this time that I thanked her for raising a wonderful man. Since then I have put a lot of thought into that conversation and have decided that I want to be that kind of Mother-in-law. The kind that raised good men that make great husbands and Dads. Then 2 days ago I called Bryan, my oldest who is 23, when he was on a date. He very nicely asked if he could call me back tomorrow (which he did) and then told me he loved me. This meant a lot to me and I hope the girl he was on a date with recognized what a wonderful man he is. They say that boys that treat their Moms with respect make the best husbands. As a Mom that was a very proud moment for me.
I thanked my MIL as well before she passed away. It has been 4 1/2 years and I still want to pick up the phone and have a long chat with her. Sounds like you've done a great job with your son.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad someone found it. What a blessing!
ReplyDeleteThank you! You just reminded me to make sure to thank my MIL for doing such a great job with her son.
ReplyDeleteI hope that my MIL's son and I will do as well with our boy.
Sounds like "mission accomplished" with you and your son. Well done, Mama!
What a great poem. It will be one year ago on 11/24 that my MIL passed of cancer. We had a great relationship and I'm glad for that. I hope I have raised
ReplyDeletemy son to be a great husband and father. Thanks for reminding us what special
people our MILs are. Sounds like your son is a fine young man!
Thank you for sharing this - we found some similar things when my grandmother passed about a year ago, which reminded us of all she did for her husband, children and grandchildren. We are fortunate for strong, loving mothers!
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Thank you for sharing this lovely poem. I am sorry to hear that your MIL passed away with Cancer. My mum lost her battle with Breast Cancer 3 years ago and 2 of my 4 sisters have had it too. I had a scare 2 weeks ago.
ReplyDeleteSha, thanks for sharing this sweet post with us. As the Mom of 2 daughters and 2 sons, and the wife of an amazing man, I couldn't agree with you more.
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